So I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my guy for almost 10 months now but we have known each other since 2013, when we dated for a year. Although we didn’t continue dating we always kept in touch during this whole time. He called me one night last August and confessed that he loved me and really missed me, then asked me to be his girlfriend. I missed him and still had feelings for him so I agreed to give our relationship another try. Since that night we have talked about marriage a lot and having children. The relationship has been great with a couple of bumps here and there but nothing serious. Earlier this year he stopped talking about marriage for a while but after spending a week with him and going through a very hard time together he asked me one night what I wanted from our relationship. He asked me to be really honest and I responded by telling him that I want to get married and have children with him. After that phone call he became pretty distant. But after talking and trying to work on our relationship he began to get close again and began to open up more. Recently he’s been talking about getting married again. Last week he texted me out of the blue and asked what size ring I wear.
I’ve been getting excited thinking of the possibility of us getting married. So last Friday I texted him “What are you doing for 4th of July, Love?” and he responded with, “A hot girl I hope…haha.” I was taken by surprise and asked “a hot girl?” and he responded with ???? so I asked him again “What do you mean?” and he said “nada.” So I got upset and things escalated quickly after that. He tried to change the subject and kid around with me but I wouldn’t let it go. After re-reading the texts again I realized that I overreacted and misunderstood his text and since have apologized a couple of times now. I sent him a few texts here and there trying to make things better. See if he could laugh but he didn’t respond. I haven’t texted him or called him anymore since 4th of July. I haven’t heard from him since Sunday morning and I’m worried because he’s never taken this long to respond back. I hate the way I reacted with him because it’s something I never do. We hardly ever get mad at each other. In fact, we’ve always have had a very happy carefree relationship. I hope that he remembers that.
So should I attempt to talk to him again or should I wait until he contacts me? I’m thinking of writing him a letter expressing my concern but I’m not sure if I should wait a couple more days to see if he’ll respond.
thanks for your help…
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