Recognizing The Wounded Masculine Voice – Leigha Lake

Leigha Lake

Have you ever had a man tell you,

“I’ll never hurt you.” 

“I’ll never cheat on you.”

“I’ll never do….”? 

These are the voices/words of the wounded masculine.

This is actually the extreme of the wounded masculine. It’s the Narcissist. There’s a REASON he’s saying it to you. The Narcissist is triggered and attracted to the Little Girl inside you who feels powerless and vulnerable.

If you feel like a little girl, don’t know who you are, wish Prince Charming would walk into your life, and are waiting for someone to come to save/help you and make your dreams come true, you’ll attract the wounded masculine energy of the Narcissist. He’ll tell you everything you’ve been waiting to hear… to draw you in.

You won’t know it initially because it will feel so good at first… 

So many successful women hear these words from men at the beginning of getting to know each other. (Obviously, not all men say this, but the ones you want to avoid do!)

I wish women would recognize and know these were huge red flags instead of what most women take it to mean, which is something like, “Wow, I like that.” “He’s amazing.” “He knows how to make me feel safe and secure.” 

“I’ll never…..” It is a HUGE red flag. Especially if it’s within the first 3 months. 

Other red flags in the first 3 months:

A man telling you you’re the love of his life, wanting to move in together, asking to borrow money…Basically acting like you’re in a deeply committed relationship when you’ve just met.

An emotionally healthy masculine-energy man would never even feel the need to say these things to you. It’s not even in his reality. 

The empowered masculine will ENJOY taking his time to get to know you.

He’ll move at a pretty steady pace. Not too fast and not too slow. 

Since most women have never experienced healthy masculine energy coming towards them, it’s important for a woman to learn what a healthy, masculine energy man will and won’t do.

With this awareness, you’ll be able to hear your intuition on an even deeper level and create even quicker results in your life. 

The more aware you become of the wounded and empowered masculine and feminine energies inside yourself and others, the more magnetic and irresistible you become to your desires at the level you desire them.

It’s a COMPLETE perception shift. A whole new parallel Universe. 

There’s no going back and no wanting to go back because life becomes so fulfilling and exciting. 

I’ve heard some people say that information isn’t transformation, and I completely disagree. 

When you become aware of the wounded and empowered energies….you can’t NOT hear them and be aware of them. 

You can’t help but become MORE empowered. This means attracting lasting love, allowing yourself to receive the next level in your business and career, and anything else your heart desires. 

Attracting love….attracting clients….attracting money are about awareness and perception.

It’s NOT a numbers game, and it’s not a “doing” energy…  as you may have heard before.

It’s an internal shift of becoming aware of if you’re valuing your dreams, your visions, and your desires and then not backing down (boundaries) or giving in to the voices that tell you it can’t happen (wounded energies) and being willing to let go of anything that’s not supporting and nourishing you in your life. 

It’s simple but not always easy. 

I’m doing this right along with you! 2018 has been the best year of my life so far, and I’m excited for 2019.

One of my favorite daily practices that have allowed me to create my dream life is waking up every morning excited for the surprises the Universe is going to bring.

I’m especially feeling that now as I’m waiting for all the Christmas packages to arrive (some for my kids and husband and some for me!) lol. It’s the SAME feeling. You KNOW it’s coming, and it’s only a matter of time before it gets here; in the meantime, you can feel excited and happy about it arriving.  

Love, Leigha 

P.S. If you’re interested in learning more about the empowered vs. wounded masculine and feminine energies, then definitely check out The Feminine Art Of Dating, Intuition, or Healthy Relationship Mastery!


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Hey, Leigha here – I’m a mom, wife, lover of the outdoors & Relationship Coach for High-Achieving Women. My mission is to help women steer clear of unhealthy, toxic, soul-destroying relationships and show them how to attract an integrated masculine man, and live a deeply rich and fulfilling life.

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