How To Turn Your Love Life Around – FAST!

Leigha Lake

If you’re not feeling the love and connection you used to feel in your relationship…

Or you’ve been dating for awhile and you’re wondering when or IF Mr. Right is going to show up – or even exists…

Or you’re feeling disappointed with how your life is going… I’ve been there.

I’ve experienced ALL three scenarios.

I think many of us have.

That being said – you can turn everything around – quickly – step by step.

When you become aware of how being in your Feminine Energy creates a magnetic pull on a man, you’ll also begin to realize you have the innate gifts already inside of you to magnetize EVERYTHING you want TO you.

When you focus all of your precious energy on YOU and what you’re here to do SPECIFICALLY – you naturally and automatically re-create attraction with your man – or draw TO you a high quality man.

If you don’t understand and learn how to harness your innate gifts of Feminine Attraction, you’ll go through life doing things the hard way and continue looking for love, approval and safety outside of yourself.

There truly is an EASIER way to have the love and life you want.

The Truth About Who You Really Are

Everything is energy and we came here as spiritual beings. This means we already ARE love, we ARE whole (MORE than enough) and we are safe. We came here with these things already. They’re INSIDE of us and can’t be taken away.

Yet, depending on our childhood, we were most likely brought up believing we had to go out and “get” these things.

This ends up causing a lot of pain, heartbreak and struggle.

How To Attract What You TRULY Desire

Begin believing you already have all the love, confidence and safety you could ever want.

How does that feel?

This is the TRUTH about who you REALLY are.

Now ask yourself:

Why am I in the profession I am?
Why am I in the relationship I am?
Why am I where I am in my life?

Does it have to do with believing you don’t have these 3 things?

The most important shift I made to attract my husband and change my life – was becoming aware of my TRUE desires of what I wanted to do with my life. It’s THAT powerful.

Instead of waiting for a man to “save” me from my life, I began empowering myself to create a life I loved.

(Waiting for a man – whether it’s waiting to see if he’s going to commit, love us again or for Mr. Right to show up – is the quickest way to BLOCK the things we really desire.)

I wrote down my ideal day and what I really truly wanted to do – which was to work with women and help them live their dreams. That was in 2011. I took some side roads – but here I am! Doing something I only DREAMED about.

Becoming aware of your deepest desires and living your Divine Purpose also creates a more passionate, loving, intimate connection with your man.

Your soul starts to shine brighter and it mesmerizes your man (or draws TO you – your dream man.) It’s a soul resonance.

Turn Everything Around Right Now

Step 1. What would you want to do ALL DAY LONG even if you didn’t get paid for it? Be really, really honest.

Step 2. Write down your most ideal day. Really envision it.

I wrote down I wanted to wake up, check my emails and spend my morning answering emails. It manifested. I had to change my ideal day as I no longer wished to answer emails first thing in the morning.

Step 3. There’s an opportunity in your environment RIGHT NOW waiting for you to RECEIVE it to propel you towards your dream life.

The “catch” here is – we typically have to let go of something that’s no longer serving us in order to embrace what’s next. It’s usually a belief.


It’s NOT possible for you.
It’s going to take a lot of time, energy and hard work.
Not knowing ALL the steps and how to’s.
I’m not good enough.
I don’t have enough experience.
I don’t have enough money.

Write down what comes up for you.

Ask yourself if you’re willing to give up this belief.

Be on the lookout the next day or two for something to come into your life – or something that comes into your field of awareness that will EXPAND your life and bring MORE to your life. This is the next step for you. Will you say, “Yes!” and RECEIVE it?

It may or may not be this new program… only you can decide. ????

Expert Relationship Coach, Helena Hart and I have put together a 7 step program on The Art Of Getting The Commitment You Want – to help you gain clarity of your specific (that thing only you can do) Divine Purpose and the EXACT steps to start living the life you were meant to live (which also includes being with your soul mate). (Click here to check it out.)

Love, Leigha


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Hey, Leigha here – I’m a mom, wife, lover of the outdoors & Relationship Coach for High-Achieving Women. My mission is to help women steer clear of unhealthy, toxic, soul-destroying relationships and show them how to attract an integrated masculine man, and live a deeply rich and fulfilling life.

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