If you’re spending your precious time and energy thinking about a man, missing him and wishing things felt the way they did in the beginning…you’re not alone.
I’ve been talking with many women recently who started dating a man who made them feel excited about love again, only to let them know (in a vague way) he wasn’t capable of giving them the relationship they really wanted.
When we feel intense chemistry with a man, it makes us think and feel there’s something special there and that there MUST be a way for us get things back the way they were.
We often blame ourselves for the way things have ended up. We also think that if we “caused” it, then we can somehow “fix” it.
This couldn’t be further from the truth!
Something we typically do as women because we’re so loving and caring is think about ALL the ways a man “needs” our help with having a loving, committed relationship.
We think things like:
- What if he wants to reach out but he’s scared I’m going to reject him?
- What if he thinks I’m not interested anymore so he’s decided to move on?
- What if he thinks I’m happier without him?
- What if he doesn’t know what to do or say?
The truth is…when you look at ANY man as “wounded” or in need of your help, you get pulled into YOUR wounded masculine energy because you’re trying to “save” him from himself and you end up creating an illusion that you CAN save him. You end up talking yourself into this.
From this point forward, if you can see EVERY man as an empowered masculine man who’s fully capable of creating and living the life that he wants – this shifts YOUR energy and allows you the CHOICE to feel empowered as well.
He’s choosing his life, and it’s up to you to choose to yourself (meaning you don’t wait around for a man who’s not choosing you).
This will attract a healthy, empowered masculine man into your life, without you working hard to make it happen. Or inspire the man your already with to step up.
Men follow their instincts. Empowered masculine men are hardwired (it’s in their DNA) to go after what they want – they don’t need our prompting or “help,” and they definitely don’t need to be talked into it.
The actions a Love Goddess requires of a man are EASY!!!
Step Into Your Love Goddess Energy And Turn Your Love Life Around
On a scale of 1 to 10, how easy is it for you to spend time with a man you love and show him affection and attention? (Don’t think about it! What comes to mind FIRST?)
Tune in to yourself and see what number comes to you. (Typically women say it’s VERY easy. It IS easy for us, right?)
If it’s easy for us, it’s even EASIER for an empowered masculine man, especially if he’s the right man for you.
Now imagine a bar of wet, slippery soap in your hand. If you try and hold on to it tight, it’s going to slip right out of your hand. (You can also imagine your hand holding sand, the tighter you hold onto the the sand, the less you actually have.)
To have the love your heart desires, imagine standing in front of your man with your heart exposed and your arms down by your sides with your palms OPEN.
How does that feel?
Not only are NOT trying to “do” anything to get what what you want, but you’re finally opening up to RECEIVE love. This creates a magnetic PULL on a man!
Imagine your hands actually holding ALL the love you’ve ever dreamed of and more.
How does that feel?
This creates SPACE and SOFTNESS at the same time. (This is my secret combination to quickly having the love and relationship you want!)
This IS your Divine Feminine Essence – your Goddess Energy.
This is the energy that REQUIRES a high quality man to pursue you, and never dream of keeping you waiting.
P.S. If you want to learn more about stepping into your Goddess Energy so you can get the loving, committed relationship you want, be sure to checkout – The Art Of Getting The Commitment You Want.
To learn more, click here, and be sure to listen to – The Four Foundational Steps To Getting The Commitment You Want teleclass. (It’s right at the top of the page.)