After I Did This ONE Thing My Husband Showed Up

Leigha Lake

Ever feel like you’re doing everything “right” and you’re still wondering if the love of your life is ever going to show up?

After I became aware of how men, love and relationships really work – (I’m talking all about this in my upcoming live event on February 2nd) I felt so confident yet I was also frustrated because I still hadn’t met the love of my life.

It wasn’t until (after dating many, many men) I thought I’d met a pretty decent man (notice I didn’t say Ah-mazing!) until he decided to go through my purse while I was sleeping – and then he wanted to talk about it so I knew right away what had happened.

He apologized profusely.

It wasn’t going to cut it.

I already saw him as a man with insecurities I knew I didn’t want in my life.

I finally put my foot down and said, “This isn’t going to work for me.” And I walked out the door.

I was no longer willing (or available) to date men who didn’t act like the man I knew I wanted. (This also meant I had to be my best self as well.)

The very NEXT man I dated was my husband. The man who has everything I’ve ever desired.

How To Create Boundaries That Instantly Attract Your Divine Match

I’m specifically talking about your Divine Match, not just some man that will do. There’s a BIG difference!!

Our boundaries come from our beliefs.

My boundaries are what attracted my husband to me, almost instantly.

If we don’t believe we deserve to have Divine Love it’s easy to accept poor treatment from men, give excuses for them and accept LESS THAN what we truly want because we don’t know how NOT to do it.

We’ve been using the toolbox marked “Love” instead of “Divine Love.”

It’s time to be UNAPOLOGETIC about what you REALLY want (in life AND love) and accept nothing less!!

When you’re truly READY these scenarios won’t even be a part of your reality.

– Men who withdraw
– Emotionally unavailable men
– Toxic men/relationships
– Men who can’t give you the love you want
– Men who disappear

Start Using Your “Divine Love” Toolbox Right Now And Effortlessly Have Love

Step 1. Choose a new boundary/belief you know you need to implement.

For example, if you’re dating a man who’s consistently letting you down, it’s time to let him go to create space for what you really want.

If you’re not dating, choosing a new belief that it’s perfectly “ok” because you’re not spending your time with Mr. Right Now.

If you’re using the Divine Love Toolbox, being picky is a good thing!!

Step 2. Create Space For Divine Love

This means not filling up your time with men who you know aren’t what you’re really looking for.

It’s easy to keep men around so you don’t feel lonely.

You’re no longer a woman who feels lonely. You’re perfectly happy being alone and having an amazing man around only ADDS to your amazing, wonderful life.

Step 3. Use Your Intuition To Receive Guidance

If you’re feeling hesitation or dread about putting yourself out there to date, I totally get it. That kind of energy isn’t helpful.

The best thing to do is to tune into your intuition for your next step to love.

Be open to receive an answer and then immediately follow through.

This is how I met my husband.

I thought I would meet him through online dating, but we actually met on a blind date!

I actually had a date set up for that night, but when I tuned into my intuition, it said to go on the blind date. I’m so glad I did!!!

I love hearing your updates! Please let me know how implementing Divine Love Boundaries works for you!

I’m 1000% confident you can have the Divine Love you want, if that’s what you choose.

Love, Leigha

P.S. If you haven’t checked out The Art Of Getting The Commitment You Want – you can check it out here!



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Hey, Leigha here – I’m a mom, wife, lover of the outdoors & Relationship Coach for High-Achieving Women. My mission is to help women steer clear of unhealthy, toxic, soul-destroying relationships and show them how to attract an integrated masculine man, and live a deeply rich and fulfilling life.

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