Here’s a question from Ashley. “Hi Leigha – Do you think men always come back?”
I think it’s something we’ve all wondered at some point – and wish we could see into the future to know what was really going to happen.
In my experience – most of them do come back. But not until we’ve actually been able to “let go” and move on. And it never feels quite as good as we think it would feel. The energy has changed. The connection has changed.
I have at least three personal experiences with this. All three of them came back wanting to “try again.”
I have clients who’s men have done a complete turn around once the woman said,”Ok, I’ve had enough, I can’t do this.” The only thing is, it’s very hard to get there with the idea that’s he’s going to come back. Almost impossible really.
The best thing you can do is to keep circular dating and filling up your Love Map with things you’re passionate about, and in the meantime…
Grab your journal and start a man list. For every man you’ve dated (even if it was just one date), write his name down and put a “Thank you” by it and answer this question, “What message did he come to give you?”
This is exactly what I did.
I also found the men I previously felt hung up on and then “moved on” – when they started moving towards me again – I could see clearly they weren’t what I was really looking for. I felt relieved it didn’t work out.
Have you felt this way before? Relieved it didn’t work out with someone you once felt crazy about?
If so, I would love to hear about it!