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The Right Man For You Exists

What if…in a very short amount of time, you could be waking up next to the love of your life, knowing that your days of wondering if it’s going to happen for you are finally over? And you get to relax and snuggle up into the arms of an empowered, emotionally available masculine man?

 

Let me show you how…

It’s time to attract the kind of love that matches who you are. You are DONE helping men. You are only available for a man who’s already the man you’ve been waiting for. 

You’ve built a beautiful life…but love still feels like your blind spot.

You’re the woman who holds it all.

The one your friends come to. The one who gets sh*t done.

You’re tired of meeting men you feel no connection with and who can’t meet you on your level. You’ve tried listening to experts who tell you to go out with men you’re not attracted to, to have 3 men in your “rotation,” and be more feminine to inspire a man into his masculine energy.

You’re also worried that it might not happen for you, and that all the good men are taken. (I promise you, they’re not!) 

The truth is, the right man for you is already in his healthy masculine energy. You don’t need to inspire him or “do” anything for him to meet you on all levels. You just need to be able to recognize him and fully receive him.

I know you’re incredibly intuitive and successful in your life, but your nervous system is working against you when it comes to receiving your legendary love. You’re still dating men with potential and letting the “red flags” pass by instead of seeing them and honoring your inner knowing and embodying your highest self-worth.

 

 

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The Three Feminine Archetypes Of The Nervous System

Most women don’t know what healthy love truly feels like because they’ve never experienced it.

Women are too quick to give the benefit of the doubt and lower their standards because they’re afraid of pushing a good man away.

This is amplified when women learn about the “law of attraction,” polarity, and the masculine and feminine energy dynamic. Instead of amplifying their intuition and discernment, these teachings create a false sense of power by trying to empower and inspire a man who can never be what she wants or needs.

They end up taking over-responsibility for the relationship dynamic rather than seeing a man for who he really is.

This costs them years of emotional, financial, and energetic investment in men who will never be capable of meeting them.

The truth is, most women don’t have a “man problem,” they have a discernment problem, which is coming from their nervous system.

When the Little Girl is running the show, she overrides her intuition for fantasy because she feels “chemistry.” When the Lioness is in charge, she confuses fear and hyper-vigilance for discernment.

True discernment only happens in the Lover frequency. It’s the frequency where your nervous system is steady enough to see clearly, feel what’s real, and stop mistaking potential for something real.

When you can hold the frequency of the Lover long enough (holding the field) – the right man, clients, opportunities, etc., come to you. 

This is the work I do with my clients. We dissolve the Little Girl and Lioness patterns that cloud their vision, and we anchor them back into the Lover…where their lives finally begin to reflect the love and abundance they’ve always been ready for.

During our work together, you’ll:

1. Learn how to hold the field of the Lover

Holding the field of the Lover means you no longer wonder, “Is it me? Did I do something?” You don’t turn in on yourself when life feels uncertain, or when men, family, or friends aren’t able to meet you on your level. You’re able to stay soft and open and hold yourself steady so that the right man, opportunities, and abundance can come to you.

2. Trust what your body is telling you 

You’ll amplify your intuition and discernment by learning my Elevated Dating Method, along with learning to identify the 3 archetypes of men and gain crystal-clear clarity on who’s capable of being a healthy relationship partner and who isn’t – within the first 3 dates.

3. Understand the nuances of how the 3 feminine nervous system archetypes influence every decision you make

Every decision you’ve ever made came from one of these three parts of you: the Little Girl, the Lioness, or the Lover. Once you can see who’s driving, you can finally choose from the Lover.

Most women toggle between the Little Girl and the Lioness with short bouts of Lover frequency. The Little Girl is the one who gives too much benefit of the doubt, wasting years of her life hoping a man will change, and being afraid of pushing away a “good” man just because he isn’t perfect. The Lioness is the one who pushes good men away because they aren’t perfect…mistaking vigilance for discernment.

The Lover lives from an elevated frequency. She doesn’t override red flags, and she doesn’t punish men for being human. She knows the difference between imperfection and incapacity. She can feel in her body who is safe, available, and capable…and who isn’t. That’s how you know you’re in your Lover: you’re clear, grounded, and you trust yourself.

4. Dissolve your patterns around men and relationships for good and receive the love you’ve been waiting for

When you’re anchored in the Lover, the old patterns of being attracted and then disappointed by men with potential, questioning if you did something wrong, or feeling like it’s not going to happen for you – lose their power. The patterns dissolve because your nervous system no longer feeds them. What once felt like a dream slipping away now becomes your superpower because you know exactly how to receive real love, real partnership, and the kind of relationship that actually sustains you.

 

Here’s What Women Are Saying About Their Legendary Love Experience…

I finally found my legendary love!! He’s the man I’ve been waiting for and didn’t really believe existed. I have never been with a more loving, caring, handsome, empowered man.
At 51, I had tried it all. I have been dating for 21 years after my divorce, with a few breaks in between. Breaks meaning relationships that lasted anywhere from two weeks to 8 years on and off. I took all the courses, including Rori Raye’s coaching course and Alison Armstrong’s “Understanding Men Celebrating Women”. One-on-one coaching with Dr. Pat Allen’s daughter for a year and a little with her as well. I read every book in the self-help and relationship section. Turned to the law of attraction and the law of assumption videos, books, workshops, and coaching. I became an expert on men and how to be more feminine. I was constantly looking for what was wrong with me or them and trying to “fix” aka control my life and my love life.
I eventually found a therapist who helped me to start validating and accepting myself as I am. Yet, something was still missing…
That’s when I rediscovered Leigha Lake. Her no “bullshit” approach aligned with me, and I could feel with Leigha that she had boundaries and walked her talk.
I’ve tried it all. I’m an expert at online dating. I knew all the things, but he wasn’t showing up. I kept making the same choices or mistakes. I was able to attract the men but it doesn’t go anywhere after a first or second date. I was tired.
Conversations with Leigha have always been easy and the way she conducts herself with total integrity and honesty is refreshing in this coaching environment full of how to “fix yourself” coaches. No one out there talks about this or empowers women the way Leigha does. Her Legendary Love program, which I have memorized because I play it on repeat every morning, is the best program I’ve come across for women to feel empowered in dating and relationships.
Leigha has a way of almost reparenting her clients in a positive, supportive way. She teaches presence and acceptance in a way no one else does. Also, in a tough love way that I highly respect and appreciate. She teaches through example aka by who she is and how she is “being”. She lives her work.
In a very short time, I met the man of my dreams, and I feel the most confident, grounded, present, and empowered I’ve ever felt. Nothing else has given me this sense of freedom.
I can’t say enough about Leigha and how every woman needs her message and coaching.
Leigha Lake is the queen of healthy relationships — the only person I follow and trust for advice on love and partnership. When I met Leigha, I was a single woman desiring an incredible man. I was asked out on dates all the time, would go with an open mind, but ultimately kept feeling like “this isn’t Him.” After a while, I started to wonder what was up and why I wasn’t attracting who I was looking for.
The most valuable thing Leigha offered me was continuous affirmation that I’ve done enough healing work. “Don’t turn in on yourself,” she would say. Leigha would remind me that trusting myself and making my life beautiful were most important on my path to attracting the right partner. Learning how to identify a healthy relationship partner was also game-changing.
Now, I am in a beautiful, committed relationship with a man who is quite literally beyond my wildest dreams (and I’m visionary!). I adore him and he treats me like gold. Our unconventional lifestyles match up and we share a love of travel. I’m so glad I stayed in my life raft and allowed him to float up beside me so that we could see each other with clear eyes.
Since being with Erik, I’ve been catapulted into my next level in every area of my life and I believe this is the true power of holding out for true love. Healthy partners help us ascend and this is so important for our personal evolution and the evolution of the planet.
I’m so grateful to Leigha for her integrated and embodied wisdom on healthy relationships. She is absolutely the real deal.
“…I met my husband shortly after doing the work Leigha recommended. We were engaged 6 months later and married on 11/11/18, exactly one year after he messaged me. We will celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary in Iceland this fall!
He is my soulmate and perfect for me in every way. I could not have DREAMED UP a better match. We attend church together, travel the world together, and love spending time in nature at our family cabin; we have two fur babies we love with all of our hearts… we are living our dream lives and could not be happier!
I am a person of deep faith, and I believe God is working through Leigha to help women find their perfect person. I cannot adequately express my gratitude to Leigha. You changed my life, and I am forever grateful!
Shelley has been with her now fiance for over 5 years, and he’s her perfect match. 
Jess met her now husband just 6 weeks into our coaching together.
Katie and Corey have been together for over four years now, have a baby and are living their legendary love.
I love that women keep finding you Leigha!
Working with you has – to this day –
been my most amazing success move and 
I thank the heavens that I got this opportunity
to meet my elevated version through our work together.
Dating my sailor for over a year now and
I cry of gratitude regularly, because his love
truly feels like the easy fresh ocean breeze
I always knew it could be – it’s amazing!
And totally with you – once we meet ourselves
so deeply the right man can’t help but be drawn to us
– I love that so much and it has come true for me.
Thank you Leigha!
So much love,
Lisy xo
Danielle met her now husband just 8 weeks into our coaching together.
Lauren and her husband have been happily married for a few years now!

Gail went through a previous program of mine and implemented the tools she learned and now she’s with a man she loves and he surprised her with a ring!

Ari has found her soulmate and they just had a baby! So happy for them! 

By the time most women find me, they’ve already invested in multiple “attracting the right man” programs and have been doing inner work for years.

They can feel they’re close… yet there’s still an invisible wall between them and the life they’re meant to live (not just with men, but in every area).

In this mentorship, you’ll learn how to stay with yourself – grounded, steady, and open long enough so the right man, and the right opportunities can actually reach you.

It’s about learning how to stop wobbling, stop giving your power away, and stop abandoning yourself when it matters most.

When you can hold the Lover frequency without collapsing back into the Little Girl or Lioness, you dissolve the invisible wall between you and your desires.

The 6-month private mentorship is $10,000. This is the deepest work I do, and it’s designed for the woman who’s ready to let life, love, and the field rearrange themselves around her.

If you know it’s time to attract and receive the love you’ve always known was possible, email me and let’s step into the field together.

The man you’ve been waiting for can finally reach you when you’re anchored in your Lover.

Your path to him is the same path back to yourself.

 

Please email me about getting started!