If your man’s acting distant and telling you he doesn’t know what he wants anymore… he’s confused and his feelings are changing and he doesn’t know WHY…
– and you’re feeling sad and heartbroken remembering how amazing and easy things felt in the very beginning (those first few months were bliss!) wishing so bad you could go back and do things “differently” – I so know how you feel.
I remember feeling so devastated and confused – I spent hours beating myself up for what I thought I did to cause him to pull away, and EVERYTHING I tried to do to get things back on track – backfired.
Maybe he’s asking you to “give him time” or telling you he’s “not ready” or maybe he’s just backing away and not saying anything at all – like how it happened to me.
If you’ve been waiting for him to text you or call you, make plans with you for the weekend, or tell you how much he loves and adores you so you finally stop feeling anxious and worried…
Or if you’ve been waiting around for years hoping for a lifelong commitment from a man or praying that your marriage can be restored – I can help!
Have you ever felt that no matter how much you wish you could stop thinking about a man – you find yourself obsessing and not able to go about your daily life? And then this leaves you feeling powerless and weak – which ultimately leaves you feel even worse? When we’re waiting for a man to make up his mind about us, hoping that we can get things back to the way they were in the beginning – it feels SO bad – and we have no idea what to do! How do we “fix” it??!!We feel stuck, sick to our stomachs with anxiety and we can’t sleep.
And what do we do in the meantime? The only thing it seems we can do – we worry, analyze and feel insecure. We start talking to all of our friends and family. We also research all the “experts” who promise strategies and “rules” with men – and it’s disappointing when nothing really seems to work.
You’ve heard…”Play hard to get – make him work for it!”
You’ve heard…”Break up with him! You deserve so much better!”
I’m sure we’ve all heard…”Men love bitches” – right?
Sometimes all we hear from the people we love is – “When are you going to leave? What’s stopping you??
And this doesn’t help us!Besides… what if there’s a chance? What if it really could turn around? Wouldn’t it be worth figuring out how to get his time, love, attention, affection and commitment? Of course it would! (Otherwise you would’ve left already!)
So many of us have felt the pain and frustration of a man withdrawing and pulling away and I want you to know you’re not alone.
It’s so easy to get hung up on a man and create an “imaginary relationship”… just by talking or texting with him (without even actually meeting him!). or after a few dates – let alone if you’re married or if you’ve been dating a man for years!
Trust me, I’ve been there!
When you feel a “connection” you rarely feel with a man – it makes you “hold on” – convinced this connection you feel must mean something special, that he’s the on for you. If you could just figure out exactly what to do or say – he would see it too!
The hard part is, you’re willing to give up what you really want – which is a loving, passionate, fulfilling relationship for this ONE man who doesn’t even know if he wants to be with you or not.
Learn exactly how men and relationships really work so you can get off the “emotional relationship rollercoaster” for good!
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It’s not his fault: He’s just doing what he wants to do – and he thinks you’re doing the same. (Men always do what they want!)
He’s not thinking about what’s best for you. (Sad but true.)
He’s not leading you on – you’re a grown woman who makes her own choices.
If you’re waiting around for a man – he thinks it’s because you want to.
The longer you wait for him to realize how amazing you are – the more his attraction fades – day by day – and we can feel it!!
We’ve been taught all the wrong things about men, love and relationships! If he needs “time” and “space” – we’re taught to expect this and to be understanding, loving, caring, PATIENT and LOYAL – so we wait. Waiting for a man not only lowers our own self – confidence and makes us feel worse – we “think” he’ll realize how amazing we are because we’re willing to wait!
The man I thought I was going to marry – vanished without a word. He just disappeared. I felt devastated and heartbroken.
It came out of nowhere – or so I thought.He’d told me I was the love of his life, that he’d never felt this way before – he was the one who brought up marriage. I believed without a doubt – he was the one for me. And then suddenly it was gone. He was gone.
All my dreams of being married and having a family with the man I was in love with were gone. I couldn’t believe it! What in the hell happened?? He was so warm, loving and passionate with me. He’d told me I was his soul mate and he could see a future together. We were so in love…
What really happened was…I had accidentally been pushing him away. We don’t know what we don’t know. I was much like you and I was going about trying to fix my relationship in a way that didn’t work. I’ve figured out what DOES work and I want to show you how to get your relationship back on track.
Here’s what started happening… Over the months of us dating … he had been laid off from his job and he sunk into a depression. I wanted him to know I was there for him. He could absolutely count on me! I knew exactly what he needed to do…I’d seen this happen with the firefighters I worked with – when a man’s not working – he gets depressed. He needed to start looking for a job, he needed to eat better and start working out! So I told him exactly what he should be doing and I was there to help him! (Isn’t that what you do when you love someone?)
I remember feeling him pull away and it made me want to do even MORE – hoping I could get things back to where they used to be. I wanted nothing more than to feel loved, safe, secure and confident about how he felt about me and where our relationship was going.
I did even more for him … I did everything I could to make him see I would be there through “thick and thin” and to make things easy for him – he was depressed after all! I offered to do things for him, take him places, pay for things, work out with him, cook him dinner – anything at all just to be near him…
Except instead of bringing him closer… he kept withdrawing, telling me he was confused, he didn’t know how he felt or why he didn’t feel the way he used to! And because I had NO IDEA what to do… I just kept leaning towards him – reassuring him everything was going to be “ok” and letting him know how much I loved him, and reminding him of how good we were together (sound familiar??).
The things we instinctively want to do when it comes to bringing our man back actually makes things worse! Instead of bringing him closer and making him feel more attraction – it kills his attraction for us and he has no idea why! The things we do to make a man fall in love, the things we’ve been taught – actually work against us and what feels like love to us – feels like pressure to a man.
I wanted to make things better between us as quickly as possible – so I automatically made everything super easy for him…
▽ I called him first
▽ I texted him first thing in the morning (although he used to do it in the beginning)
▽ I asked him how he was doing before caring about how I was doing
▽ I paid for things
▽ I drove to him because it was easier for him
I asked him how he felt about me and where he saw our relationship goingI wanted him to know without a doubt how much I cared about him! I had no idea this was making him lose attraction for me day by day! It was actually making things worse!
When a man is “unsure” about how he feels and you respond by being super understanding and reassuring that you’re meant to be together and you can “get through this” – it pushes him away even more. It makes him wonder what’s wrong with you for wanting to be with someone who doesn’t know if he wants to be with you.
What I want you to do is to embody your inner goddess and start to question and become curious about “why” you’re willing to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you as you do him.
I know this can feel really scary when you love someone so much and consider them the love of your life.
When you start to question and become curious, you open up space between the two of you energetically and it allows him the space to reconnect with his feelings for you.
It feels so bad and confusing when a man suddenly pulls away and the only thing you can think of doing next is – to make sure he knows exactly how you feel about HIM. So you write him an email or send a text or ask him if you can meet in person. It’s very clear to him that you WANT him and you’re suffering and any man will automatically and instinctively feel turned off.
When we feel an intense connection with a man, especially because everything felt so amazing in the beginning – and he pulls away – it intensifies the connection almost to where we would do anything to be with him… even if it makes us feel terrible in the meantime. We start accidentally chasing him by thinking about him, strategizing how to talk to him, spend more time with him, and trying to figure him out. If he knows you’d do almost anything for another chance – it’s basically just like pushing him out the door and shouting at him to never come back – and sometimes we actually feel like doing just that – don’t we? Just to stop the pain and suffering of it all.
The reason why trying to tell him how we feel about him is one of the worst things we could do – it makes us feel insecure, desperate and needy. It makes us feel consumed and obsessed about what he’s doing and thinking – and he can feel it!
We’re giving off the exact opposite vibe we want him to feel from us!
It’s detrimental to his feelings of attraction for us – and even he doesn’t even realize WHY. He just knows his feelings are changing and he doesn’t feel the same way he used to.There IS a way to express how you’re authentically feeling…in a way that brings him closer instead of accidentally pushes him away.
Here’s the thing – we don’t know what we don’t know. I was much like you. I had NO IDEA the things I was instinctively doing – were actually pushing the man I loved away. Once I learned the information I teach in my eBook, EVERYTHING changed for me.
There’s a way to do things completely differently, in way that WILL work – IF he’s the man for you. A way that will bring a marriage back from the brink of divorce and where you’ll have more intimate communication, and passionate sex – and it can happen in a couple of days!
If you don’t learn and use what I’m going to be teaching in this program, you’ll keep enduring the pain and frustration of your man not giving you the love you deserve – and you’ll constantly be worrying and working really hard to “fix” your relationship. As women we find ourselves in all the “wrong” situations over and over again. Somehow we’ve been taught all the wrong information about how men and relationships really work. This program will teach you step-by-step how to get your relationship back on track. Not through means of playing games or trying to get him to do something…but through doing the inner work that allows you to become the woman who easily inspires a man to fall in love.
Even if… The man you’re with is withdrawing and withholding his attention and affection from you, starting arguments, backing away from sex, spending more time at work and with friends than with you, and telling you he’s “confused” about what he feels for you. You’re starting to feel insecure – even though you started out totally confident while he was still “pursuing” you. You’re thinking about him so much of the time, you feel almost like you’re losing yourself and the confidence you used to have. You’re struggling in your relationship and you’re having a hard time understanding why he just won’t commit…
Or why he’ll contact you but it’s so sporadic… You don’t want to live your life any longer without learning this information. No matter how unhappy and frustrated you’re feeling right now, if your man’s pulling away and withdrawing, becoming distant or saying he’s confused… Make Him Fall In Love Again will help you!
In one product – you’ll get the KEYS to having the love you truly desire and inspiring your man to want to come close and stay close.
In this program you’ll learn specific step by step Tools to:
Know the first thing you have to do if he tells you he’s confused and doesn’t know what he wants:
▽ Know why he’s avoiding commitment and what to do about it
▽ Know how long you should wait to respond after he’s contacted you
▽ Exactly what to do if he’s telling you he wants to be just “friends”
▽ What to do if he never calls
▽ How to know if you should stay or walk away – and be ok doing either one
▽ What to do if he looks at other women
▽ What to do if he’s giving you mixed messages
▽ What it means if he’s not introducing you as his girlfriend
▽ The quickest way to shift your “vibe” so he sees you in a completely different way than any other woman
▽ Word for word scripts to say to bring him back
Love is all around us, and although most of us say we want love, most of us are accidentally pushing love away. I can help you stop blocking love and let it come to you in ways you’ve never imagined.
Certified Life And Relationship Coach
Master Coach Teacher for Rori Raye
P.S. I can’t promise you your relationship will turn around. He might not be the right man for you. I can promise you IF he is the one for you, and you’re willing to do the inner work that I teach in my program, you can have the deeply connected relationship you’ve always wanted.
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This program will teach you step-by-step how to get your relationship back on track. Not through means of playing games or trying to get him to do something…but through doing the inner work that allows you to become the woman who easily inspires a man to fall in love.
When you learn the Tools I’m about to teach you – you’ll start to experience what magic really feels like. (That’s what my clients say!)